When it comes to bartenders and waitstaff, and parking, bathroom and coatroom attendants, the rules of tipping are dictated by your contract. If the service fee is included, consider doling out extra only if the service was exceptional. If it's not included, ask ahead of time how many attendants will be working your wedding and calculate on a per person basis.
"Remember why you are getting married, and try to truly make it be an event about (and for) the both of you. Have faith in your vendors and photographer, and trust that they will do their job well! And once it's happening, just go with it. One of my favorite memories is calling my dad after he walked me to the dock to meet Jim because he had my vows in his jacket pocket! Everyone laughed, and so did I.
Guest blogger: Allison Silber, founder and creative director for engagedandinspired.com. Engaged & Inspired is a wedding publication for crafty brides who strive to fill their wedding day with loads of personality. The team of real brides post about the highs and lows of wedding planning and what it takes to pull off their big day. Aside from running Engaged & Inspired, Allison also offers planning and design services to the Carmel Valley area.
Are you worried about finding the right wedding dress for your dream location? Look no further - JJ's House has such a massive range of dresses for you to pick from you'll be truly spoiled for choice! We have everything from elegant, long sleeve wedding dresses for a classic or vintage theme to tea length wedding dresses - perfect for a low-key beach or destination wedding. Our large collection of wedding dresses also come in a multitude of fabrics to suit any time of year such as gorgeous satin for a winter wedding or tulle for ball gown wedding dresses suitable for any season or venue.
Pare down your guest list with the "tiers of priority" trick. Place immediate family, the bridal party and best friends on top of the list; follow with aunts, uncles, cousins and close friends you can't imagine celebrating without. Under that, list your parents' friends, neighbors, coworkers and so on. If you need to make some cuts, start from the bottom until you reach your ideal number.
Our printing processes are art forms that are only as good as their canvas - the paper itself. This is why we are pleased to have the finest quality paper stocks that you absolutely will not find anywhere else. We offer an assortment of paper to choose from. We have our signature stock and our signature smooth stock. Both with a creamy, soft texture and off-white hue. Our pearlescent stock adds a subtle shimmer to your design. For the eco-conscious brides, we offer a recycled stock that does not compromise quality. Finally, for the brides looking to make a statement, we have double-thick paper, and for an even heavier statement, we have triple-thick.
Wedding budgets are all about balance. Start your budget planning by making a checklist of the crucial details, like the music, your wedding gown, the invitations, the flowers and the photographer, and assign a number to each—one being the most important and three being the least. Invest your money in all your number ones and cut corners on your number threes. (But everything can't fall into the number one category!) For example, if a designer gown and fabulous food are what really matter, you may have to choose simple invitations and smaller floral arrangements.
Your wedding vendors should be your go-to, most-trusted experts during the planning process. When working with them, you should feel free to really explore what it is you want—maybe it's serving a late-night snack instead of a first course or doing a bridal portrait session rather than an engagement session. The bottom line is that you should feel like you can have an honest conversation with them about what it is you want. Their job will be to tell you what you can and can't make work given your wedding budget.
If your guest list is bursting at the seams, assess the plus-one scenario. Do a faux seating chart in your mind, and imagine whom your single pal would sit with. If it's a table of singles that she knows pretty well, then you're all set. If it's a table of couples (making her the odd one out) or if it's a table of singles where she won't know anyone, consider bending the rules. If asked why you're not allowing single friends to bring guests, size or budget constraints or your parents' never-ending guest list are always good reasons. 
Our printing processes are art forms that are only as good as their canvas - the paper itself. This is why we are pleased to have the finest quality paper stocks that you absolutely will not find anywhere else. We offer an assortment of paper to choose from. We have our signature stock and our signature smooth stock. Both with a creamy, soft texture and off-white hue. Our pearlescent stock adds a subtle shimmer to your design. For the eco-conscious brides, we offer a recycled stock that does not compromise quality. Finally, for the brides looking to make a statement, we have double-thick paper, and for an even heavier statement, we have triple-thick.

Looking for a summer wedding dress? We offer a variety of styles and silhouettes that are perfect for the most popular wedding season. Crafted from lightweight fabrics, our beach wedding dresses are perfectly packable so you look stunning no matter the destination. Bold lace always makes us think of fall weddings, while crisp white and long sleeves are perfect for the winter months. For your spring wedding, why not try a wedding dress with color or a tulle gown? 
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