You have four choices: You can welcome children with open arms; you can decide to have an "adults only" wedding; you can include immediate family only; or, you can hire a child care service to provide day care either at the reception space, in a hotel room or at a family member's home. To prevent hurt feelings, it's wise to avoid allowing some families to bring children while excluding others (unless, of course, the children are in your bridal party).

When you're already digging deep into your (or your parents') pockets for wedding expenses, allotting room in your budget for gratuities on top of that can be hard to handle. And even though service charges may be spelled out in your contract, tipping—although not mandatory—is always appreciated for a job well done, not to mention a kind and thoughtful gesture. So don't forget to factor in tips when making your wedding budget.

Your wedding cake may just be the most significant confection you ever buy, so it's key to know what you're getting into. A good place to start is by reading our top tips from wedding cake bakers from around the country. Next, the fun part (well, besides the tasting), is to start searching through wedding cake pictures to help figure out which wedding cake designs suit your style. From classic cakes to more ornate styles, we have something for every taste – literally! Then check out local wedding cake bakers to find a pro near you.
"All the stress you had before the big day...just let it go. It is what it is, and stressing will only damper your big day. If it's out of your control, let it be out of your control and just roll with it. Cherish every moment because it goes by so fast. And kiss your husband as many times as you can that day. It's all about the two of you, don't lose sight of that." —Megan and Steve
This is a great white wedding cake for those of you who like it plain. When I was a child, one of my neighbors who was elderly made a lot of wedding cakes for family and other people, and she took great pride in her work. She used fancy staircases you get in cake decorating stores, and even crocheted certain decorations. All is in your imagination. No professional baker did what she did. Be creative.
Do you want to make sure you shop somewhere that has every possible length, sleeve, and bodice option available? We're glad you've decided to shop at JJ's House because we know we will have what you are looking for! Many stores only carry stock-standard ranges of wedding dresses, but at JJ's, we have short wedding dresses, and wedding dresses with sleeves, asymmetrical wedding dresses - any combination of cuts or styles for bodices or lengths you can possibly think of! Whether you are looking for a full-length sleeve or elbow length, you will find your picture-perfect dress at JJ's.

See something you like but it’s not quite right? One of the best-kept secrets we never meant to be a secret is that Minted actually offers Design Customization Services for almost all of our products. You can have us customize things beyond the tools automatically provided to you within our interface. Work directly with a designer to change color schemes and fonts. You can even hire a designer from our community to create something from scratch. If you’re not sure about a detail or simply want a look you haven’t seen yet, feel free to contact us using the form on the link above and someone from our team of design professionals will respond to your request quickly.

How should I address my invitations? This can get pretty complex pretty quick! Generally, you address the envelopes to an entire family as one entity. You can list out the individual family members on the RSVP card if you feel clarification is needed. The same goes for couples, they receive one invitation addressed to both. Single people are given a nudge to bring a date by simply adding "plus guest" to the end of their name.

See something you like but it’s not quite right? One of the best-kept secrets we never meant to be a secret is that Minted actually offers Design Customization Services for almost all of our products. You can have us customize things beyond the tools automatically provided to you within our interface. Work directly with a designer to change color schemes and fonts. You can even hire a designer from our community to create something from scratch. If you’re not sure about a detail or simply want a look you haven’t seen yet, feel free to contact us using the form on the link above and someone from our team of design professionals will respond to your request quickly.


Sometimes, last-minute planning can work in your favor. The closer your date, the more bargaining power you have. Since most people book their wedding venues at least six months in advance, calling for open dates two months prior to your desired time can save you up to 25 percent. And, Friday and Sunday weddings should cost about 30 percent less than Saturday weddings.
Your (amazing!) invitations should arrive in mailboxes six to eight weeks before your wedding, again allowing extra if guests will need to arrange time off and air travel. Set your RSVP date three to four weeks prior to your wedding so you’ll have time to follow up on missing responses before you have to give final numbers to your vendors. A great tip is to use an invisible ink UV pen to mark your response cards with numbers corresponding to your guest list. It’s common to receive back several RSVP’s with no name, and the number system allows you to identify the responders. The UV part keeps it all discreet and the envelope pristine.
Second, if you delegate, be specific and do it beforehand. Among several things I forgot: I didn't delegate a clean-up team for the next morning, so we and four other saintly guests ended up scrambling around, cleaning up everything ourselves. It wasn't anyone's fault but my own, because everyone just thought I had a crew designated to do it (I hadn't communicated my need for help).
In a three-ring binder, compile all your correspondences with vendors, notes you make during meetings, and photos or tear sheets from magazines you want vendors to see. Set up a special email address dedicated to your wedding, and store important vendor numbers in your cell phone. For on-the-go planning that keeps everything in one place, download the The Knot All-In-One Wedding Planner app to keep all of your planning info digitally on-hand at all times.
Sweetheart, strapless, plunge, cap sleeve, high neck—your options are nearly endless when it comes to the neckline for your gown! A sweetheart neckline is classic and romantic, while a high neckline is modern and sleek. Or try something unexpected such as a long sleeve wedding dress with a dramatic plunge neckline. Still can’t decide? Try a gown with a convertible neckline that lets you switch it up from ceremony to reception!
Another unforeseen expense? Feeding your wedding day crew. Before you sign the contracts, make sure you're not required to serve the same meal to your vendors that guests will receive. Otherwise, you could be paying for 20 additional lobster tails. Choose a less expensive (but equally hearty) meal for them instead. You will have to let your wedding caterer know a couple of days before the wedding exactly how many vendors you need to feed (don't forget photography assistants and band roadies) and what you want them to serve.
What should wedding invitations say? Be sure to include the date you’re getting married, the location of the wedding and reception, the time of the wedding, and the names of the people being married. If it applies, you might also want to mention who is hosting the wedding and what the dress code will be. Don’t forget to include an RSVP card with a self-addressed, stamped envelope.
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