Get any nonstandard changes to your agreements in writing or send the vendor a confirmation email saying, "Hello, just confirming that you'll keep the venue open until 2 a.m. versus midnight." Don't just assume everything's all set—sometimes, by the time the actual day rolls around, your contact for a certain may no longer be working there to vouch for you.

From the internet to your best friend to your nearly-in-laws, wedding tips are superabundant. Craft a gracious but noncommittal response to suggestions, and offer it with a genuine smile. In an unpressured moment, choose the ideas that fit your vision and your budget, and be thankful so many people want your special day to be wonderful! For more ideas and tips, keep reading at our blog about wedding seasons ,  money saving tips on a wedding & wedding invitations design guide


"Reading from The Lovely Love Story was the best decision we made for our wedding! Our guests couldn't stop talking about how adorable and memorable it was, and we still get a bunch of guests sharing random dinosaur posts on our Facebook walls. We also ended up getting amazing wedding films, since it gave the cinematographers something really emotional to connect all of the pieces together. Cinematographers are storytellers, so having a unifying element to drive your love story will truly leave lasting impression in your wedding films." —Lisa and Jonathan
Our printing processes are art forms that are only as good as their canvas - the paper itself. This is why we are pleased to have the finest quality paper stocks that you absolutely will not find anywhere else. We offer an assortment of paper to choose from. We have our signature stock and our signature smooth stock. Both with a creamy, soft texture and off-white hue. Our pearlescent stock adds a subtle shimmer to your design. For the eco-conscious brides, we offer a recycled stock that does not compromise quality. Finally, for the brides looking to make a statement, we have double-thick paper, and for an even heavier statement, we have triple-thick.
No matter your style, we think there's something ahead that'll catch your eye. That's because we've spotlighted such a wide range of clutches. Some of the following arrangements are definitively seasonal—you'll love the many fall bridal bouquets, for example. Others adhere to certain themes, like rustic, modern, and tropical. Plus, there are many that embrace totally unique color palettes.  
"No matter how well-intentioned, friends and family will undoubtedly lend advice, opinions, and even objections to your decisions. It's easy for you two to become divided. But in the end, this is a celebration of your love and future together, and so every choice should be yours alone. Keep your focus on what matters most, forget what you think you should or shouldn't do, and go with your heart. If you keep you two at the center of every decision, it will be the most memorable day of your life." —Kendahl and Nick
We know it takes a village of your closest friends and family to complete your special day. You can outfit the entire wedding party, starting with our stunning Mother of the Bride dresses that will make your mom feel like a queen, our vast collection of complimentary bridesmaid dresses for the favorite women by your side, and our groomsmen accessories to pull it all together.
A wedding dress is perhaps the most carefully chosen dress a woman will ever wear. Our gown collection gives you plenty of options to choose from and you are sure to find a wedding dress that is just right for you at BHLDN! Plus, our online shop makes finding “the one” a breeze. As you narrow down your favorite wedding day looks, think about silhouette, style, neckline, and season. Keep this same mindset as you search for your perfect bridesmaids dresses and mother of the bride dresses to complete your bridal party!
"Before my wedding, I remember my coworker telling me that her wedding day was the BEST day of her life, and she was so excited that I would soon be able to experience mine. When I was in the midst of planning my wedding, the long, daily to-do lists and the stress made me feel as if that day would never come. However, it eventually did! When it came, I tried my best to savor every moment of the wedding day—from the moment I got out of bed to the moment I walked out of my wedding venue as a married woman— and I'd advise brides and grooms out there to do the same." —Jamie and Daniel
If your guest list is bursting at the seams, assess the plus-one scenario. Do a faux seating chart in your mind, and imagine whom your single pal would sit with. If it's a table of singles that she knows pretty well, then you're all set. If it's a table of couples (making her the odd one out) or if it's a table of singles where she won't know anyone, consider bending the rules. If asked why you're not allowing single friends to bring guests, size or budget constraints or your parents' never-ending guest list are always good reasons. 
How should I address my invitations? This can get pretty complex pretty quick! Generally, you address the envelopes to an entire family as one entity. You can list out the individual family members on the RSVP card if you feel clarification is needed. The same goes for couples, they receive one invitation addressed to both. Single people are given a nudge to bring a date by simply adding "plus guest" to the end of their name.
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